How to Correct Unruly Students?
Home-Training
and the Most Wanted List
Keeping abreast
of off-kilter conduct
By Harry M. Covert
Crime
runs rampant these days and it’s not the blame of the media, or local, state
and national financial crises or because school teachers and administrators are
avoiding responsibilities.
Movies
and television programs, novels and creative stories are dominant with vicious violence
of all sorts but this is no reason for the real time, real life home invasions,
burglaries, daring daylight robberies and murders to come to the forefront of
community thinking and hand-wringing.
Preferably
it’s fun writing with humor about daily living and the foibles and peccadilloes
of politicians, movie stars, tattooed athletes who can’t speak simple sentences
and mumble their way through idiotic pre- and post-game interviews.
In days gone by reporters cleaned up the quotes of punch-drunk boxers and other athletes. Today, broadcasters are as profane and inane as their subjects too. Then there are elected national leaders who “cuss” in their interviews.
Tragically
today’s citizens can be considered victims of the “home training” or the lack
thereof. There are no manners it seems. Many parents are so ill-mannered
themselves they think the schools and the educators just have to endure the
rude and untrained pupils.
Rules
and regulations often prevent those in authority from “correcting” unruly
students in far too many classrooms.
Instead
of yes ma’am, no ma’am, thank you sir youngsters get away with yeah’s and nopes.
They may well be doing their things but parents ought to be held accountable
for manners, home training before sending offspring out into the community.
Preachers of all stripes should be leading the way and not wishy-washy in their
sermonizing.
Yes, crime news is a favorite of news consumers scintillating and keeps the public abreast of the off-kilter conduct which costs governments great deals of money.
One
of my favorite school teachers kept control of students with a simple solution
– grading. Bad conduct like sassing the
teacher, rudeness or not completing work resulted in “zeroes” on the report
card. Administrators stepped in and put the kibosh on this method.
School
curriculums should start with Emily Post etiquette classes emphasizing courtesy
and maturation.
Naturally
many parents would object almost as loudly if public schools required starting
the day with the Lord’s Prayer, the Pledge of Allegiance, the Gettysburg
Address or the proper way to cook Maryand crab soup.
One
of the better weekly reports I see in Frederick are the city and county’s Most
Wanted list. These folks aren’t misunderstood. They aren’t innocents either.
Most live uneducated, drug-infested and morally bankrupt lives.
Uncaring?
Not in the least. Responsibility, good civics and parental guidance make the
difference.
Community
and political leaders need not feel guilty or throw more money at disruptive
people. Hold parents and guardians responsible by issuing tickets with fines
for underage conduct.
A
president once said “walk softly but carry a big stick.” Another version is
“when all else fails, grab the problem by the throat.”
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